The BC's are a great improvement over stock, because of the adjustable height and dampening. In terms of feel, you can make it more of what you like, so there is no disadvantage here. I've never had any negative feedback to give on the coil-overs. Better than stock. I'd even say just get them and keep your stock stuff - then part out the BC suspension when you sell the car and you wont lose much. You will have, "rented" the coil-overs.
As for the rest of the build... there are definitely some things I have had to do more than once, so yeah - I would have done things differently in some cases. But the car is really well balanced because I never really strayed from a street build. There are no hardcore race modifications and everything has evolved to be both more powerful and just as comfortable.
The exhaust started out much more harsh, but I've added back in the cat and a resonator to have better daily street manners. I lived with some discomfort for a while, then tweaked it to be better. Once I installed solid motor mounts. HUGE MISTAKE. after 6 weeks I replaced them with OE mounts. Several examples like this but in the end, they all helped to create the final build that I consider really dialed in. I have no problem daily driving this car, carpooling kids, taking weekend road trips... reliability is not an issue.
But maintenance is definitely a little more expensive - and I need to use specialty service providers, carry special insurance, etc. It's more of a headache than a regular car for sure but its worth it for the fun factor. I enjoy it every single time I drive.