I was quite sure i had started a topic here about it, but i did get no real big support due to the fact it is a rare story nobody came across.
QX70 09+ - Interior electronics not working
Now diving back into it i see there is some more info available on the web as a few years ago when i was looking for this.
But a new unit will set you back $600, a used one is hard to find and still is very expensive for me as it has to be shipped to the Netherlands.
Part number is 284601-CA0A, located behind the lower dash cover on the passenger side footwell. (when working there be careful with the airbag electronics)
On the attached pictures you can see mine had some corrosion etc. on 1 corner of the circuit board which i believed was the reason for it not to work.
When i looked at it, to me i was plausible some drink was spilled on the dashboard/inside glove box and that went through a gap ending up on the TICM.
If i had the option to find a $100-150 used module from a scrap car i would take my chance and try it as i am pretty sure it will be the cause.
I do remember now my doubt at the time as the steering wheel/seat "easy entry/exit" sequence also did not work which is also controlled by the BCM.
But this turned out to be the steering column sensor, different story.