i actually came across a pretty slick little number recently, can't seem to find it right now. basically you use wire a 9V battery to a plug that you'd put in your ashtray, like a cell phone charger etc. when you connect a 9V to it and plug it into the socket, it will give the ECU enough juice to remember the settings while you remove the battery. when your all done you just pull it out.
however, does the front lighter socket still get power when the car is off?