ED, I believe Jonas has that button in his, I have it in my 09 FX. I think you are talking about the Snow Mode switch, it cuts back power and delivers the power to 50/50 front and rear up to 20km/hr (12mph). If you go over that speed it just reverts back to the normal awd mode. You should not use this switch on dry pavement, only slippery surfaces..
this to me is more believable considering how good it the FX is off the line and on turns coming off the line even with bad tires in the snow.
If snow mode does activate full AWD 50/50 split up to 12mph, why is it limited to only that? If you are in snow mode...you are indicating you are driving in bad conditions...snow! When I'm driving 45mph in a 70mph highway because there is snow and ice everywhere...or even a rode going 20 when speed limit 40, I'm wanting AWD, not rear wheel!?? Why would they do this.
Also, in regards to "should not use this switch on dry pavement"....if it is wet outside and freezing temps, I always turn it on as soon as I get in the car....but the subdivision might have snow, but when I get on the main road and the highway of going 80-90 for 20 minutes, it's dry....I'm not flipping the switch on/off/on/off, but am going 10 minutes on snow, then 5 minutes on dry road, then 90mph on highway dry, then 10 minutes on snow, etc all on the same drive all in snow mode.....
Furthermore, my thoughts are that if it was at all damaging to leave it on when dry, I would think alerts would show on the dash or the ECU would handle it. Us enthusiasts are much more aware of what we should or shouldn't do, but not 98% of the other FX buyers, so this is also something I haven't gotten concrete evidence on yet irregardless of what I've read and/or heard from multiple people/forums.
This topic is somewhat a headache because I've read so many cases of it being damaging and others trying to provide proof it isn't, then cases of what snow mode does and what it doesn't etc....I think it's one of the most unknown phenomenons and talked about frequently and responded already in 100 different ways from 100 different experts....at least that has been my observation after trying to truly figure out what the heck is going on from every topic related to this on the internet....and yet I still yearn for all these answers. hehe