I read before that some guys sub-consciously seek out girls with issues because her issues will mask your own. If the relationship focuses on how f'd up she is and how she needs help with this or that (bulimia, cutter, bi-polar, literally psychopathic, stalker, etc) then there's no chance any light will shed on your short-comings if you even have any. The point isn't always to hide your own issues, but maybe to not let yourself or her discover them.
Dr. Frank out.
Dr. Phil drives an FX, lol. Very insightful. But can you just imagine the relationship between those two subjects. Yikes! :afraid: