the site used to have great meets, we would plan big ones, 50+ FXs, but not anymore.
I do go to Cars&Coffee in Yorktown NY and to big meets in New Cannan CT a few times a year but stopped going to most of the 'evening' meets in the NYC area because too many shady people. My friend throws meets in Yonkers during the summer and I know of a bunch of meets in that area as well.
I am down to do a meet, though.