Thank you all so much for proving that I am not crazy! Based on your input, I Did purchase the "silver" crossbars b/c according to da mayor, the graphite are blackish in color. The pic you posted looks like mine that I installed exactly. I guess Infiniti just really dropped the ball with these cause it appears they are just using the bars, or at least the paint, as the ones for the EX cause they match the EX rails and bars. So Im stuck with unmatched rails and bars which really pisses me off. 50K for a car and I cant get $300 bars to match? Unreal...
JBaker, thanks for the offer but if your bars look like the ones in the pic, I might as well keep the ones I have. But thanks again.
da mayor, you work at Massapequa? I purchased 2 QX4s from there years ago. Nice dealership and I believe John Ippolito was the salesman, doubt he is still there. But being on North Shore now I use Manhasset.